Alternative to Costly Divorce



New York Divorce Mediation Lawyers
Mediation… The Smarter Alternative
Guiding You Toward a Peaceful, Equitable Divorce or Separation
Mediation is Easier on You, Less Stressful on the Children
If you are considering divorce or separation in Long Island, or the greater metropolitan New York area, mediation is a smarter alternative to costly divorce proceedings. Divorce is never easy, and you’re likely facing emotional and financial stress. Traditional divorce proceedings can escalate tensions and lead to unnecessary battles that prolong the process. Divorce mediation offers a more peaceful solution.
At the New York Divorce Mediation Group, our divorce mediation services provide a structured and supportive environment where both spouses can work toward a mutually beneficial agreement. Our team of experienced divorce mediation attorneys and therapists are dedicated to helping you navigate the complexities of divorce in a way that minimizes stress, saves time, and reduces costs.
Why Choose Divorce Mediation Over Traditional Divorce?
Benefits of Divorce Mediation
New York’s divorce laws are complex, but mediation offers a way to resolve your divorce without the need for lengthy litigation. Divorce mediation allows you to retain control of the process and outcome. Our two conveniently located offices in Nassau County and Suffolk County are easily accessible for Long Island residents, ensuring that you can find a solution close to home. We also offer remote options such as zoom enabling us to work with clients in Westchester, Queens, and New York City as well as the other boroughs.
Reduced Stress & Emotional Toll
Divorce is a deeply emotional process. Traditional litigation often exacerbates conflict, but mediation fosters open communication. Our trained mediators in Long Island NY are skilled at managing emotionally charged situations. As attorneys and therapists we ensure that both parties, as well as children, experience the least emotional toll during the process.
Cost-Effectiveness
Traditional divorce litigation often involves high legal fees, court costs, and other unexpected expenses. Mediation, on the other hand, can significantly reduce costs. With the guidance of our expert divorce mediation attorneys in Long Island, you can resolve all issues without the need for prolonged court battles. You never have to go to court. Our services streamline the process, including the preparation of the separation or divorce agreement and filing for your uncontested divorce, making mediation an affordable option that takes care of all your legal needs.
Faster Resolution
While traditional divorce litigation can take years, divorce mediation is a faster way to reach a resolution. The mediation process can be completed in months, allowing you to move on with your life sooner. The efficiency of mediation compared to litigation can save you time and energy.
What We Help You Resolve in Mediation
Our mediators will guide you through all issues related to your separation or divorce, including:
- Division of Marital Property
Assets and debts acquired during the marriage are subject to equitable distribution in New York State. - Spousal Support (Maintenance)
New York State has guidelines to determine how much spousal support (Maintenance) is appropriate and for how long it should be paid. - Child Support & Custody
New York State’s child support law includes a calculation to determine the basic child support obligation and includes factors that may result in a deviation from the basic child support obligation. Parents can opt for different custody arrangements regarding both decision making (joint or sole legal custody) and whether the child will reside with one parent most of the time or with both parents equally (residential custody). - Parenting Plans
There are many different types of parenting plans and we will help you choose one that works for both parents and the children. - Debt Allocation
Debts accrued during the marriage are subject to equitable distribution. We’ll ensure that debts, including credit card debt, student and personal loans, are allocated fairly, protecting both parties’ financial futures. - Retirement Accounts & QDROs
Retirement plans that have accrued during the marriage are subject to equitable distribution. The division of retirement accounts requires special attention. Our mediators will guide you through the process, including the use of QDROs to divide retirement benefits fairly.

The Divorce Mediation Process Explained
Step 1 – Initial Consultation
The process begins with an initial free consultation where we listen to your concerns and explain how mediation can help. During this session, we’ll assess your needs and discuss potential solutions.
Step 2 – Gathering Information
We gather all necessary information related to assets, debts, children, and other relevant details. This step ensures that we have a clear understanding of your financial and family needs.
Step 3 – Negotiation & Resolution
Our skilled mediators will facilitate negotiations between you and your spouse, helping both of you to come to mutually agreeable terms. With our guidance, we’ll address issues such as asset division, child and spousal support, parenting plans, and more.
Step 4 – Drafting the Agreement
Once both spouses agree on the terms, we’ll draft a legally binding separation or divorce agreement. This will set forth the agreed-upon terms and ensure that everything is in accordance with New York State law.
Step 5 – Court Filing & Finalizing
Finally, we’ll submit the necessary paperwork to the court to finalize your uncontested divorce. This step is quick and efficient, bringing your divorce to a close with minimal stress and disruption and without going to court.
Advantages of Working With Our Attorneys / Therapists
We offer a unique combination of legal and emotional support to guide you through the process:
1. Integrated Legal & Emotional Support
Our team includes both attorneys and therapists, offering comprehensive support for all aspects of your divorce.
2. Full-Service Approach
We provide full mediation services, from consultation to court filing, ensuring that your divorce process is handled efficiently.
3. Private & Confidential
Your privacy is important to us. Divorce mediation is a confidential process that protects your personal and financial information.
4. Flexible Scheduling & Virtual Options
We understand that your time is valuable. Our flexible scheduling, including virtual mediation options, allows you to meet at a time and place that works best for you.
5. Commitment to Child-Centered Solutions
Our focus is always on the well-being of your children. We work with you to develop parenting plans that support their emotional and physical needs.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
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